Tips to Handle Teens' Problems

 Hi readers! My name is Aurellia Tanica and I’m a 9th grader. I’m from Tunas Bangsa Christian School. Now, I would like to share some tips about how to handle problems that we face. Hope you will be blessed by reading it! :)

   I know that many of us have got some problems in our daily life such as having quarrel with our parents every day, eating disorders because doesn’t want to get fat, got stressed because of simple things probably broken hearted and many others. Here are some tips` that I want to tell you. Come on just read it! :D

   The first one is about having quarrel with our parents. It is really often in teens’ life. It happened because sometimes parents do not want to understand their children. How to handle it?? For me, to handle it we should pray to GOD and ask Him wisdom so we will know what should we do wisely, do not fight them back, and never revenge, but forgive. GOD knows all the best for us, so just ask Him how to handle it. If your parents give you a really long speech, just listen and never say a single word because it will make the situation worsen. As a teen, I know how is the feeling after having quarrel with our parents. It is really bad, isn’t it? Although you got mad because of your parents, you must forgive them because it is stated in the Bible “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32.

   Second is having eating disorder, especially for girls. All of the girls in the world of course want to have an ideal body which is not fat, nor thin. Sometimes their perspective is stupid. They think that eating once a day will help them in weight loss, but the fact, it is not helping. Instead, it will make them hungry and it causes stomachache and probably they will get sick. My advice for those girls is do not eat once a day, they must see what do they eat. It can’t be always fats because it’s not good. They should eat more vegetables and fruits and also have some exercises so that their body will have a good metabolism process.

   Stress or depression is the third one. Hey you fellas! Don’t get stressed! You are still young and still have much time! Just enjoy your life! You can’t be stressed because of broken hearted, have too much things to carry, do not pass your test, or anything else. If you didn’t pass the test, that doesn’t mean you’ll die. You still have a chance to do it!  So, don’t worry and be happy because you have Jesus in your heart!

   And the last but not least is about bullying. Of course all of us know what is bullying. Bullying is the use of force to abuse or intimidate others which can be mentally or physically. Bullying is a problem in many schools. These are some ways in handling bully. First is to report it to your teachers so that they will help you in handling it. Second, learn self – defense. Why?? Because if somebody hit you, you can hit them back by studying self - defense. The last is never show fear before the bully. Just go about your own business and never get distracted because of them. Because, by that way, the will get bored and maybe they will not disturb you again.

   I think that’s all that I want to share to you. Thank you for reading and sorry for some grammatical errors that I have made.